An open letter to the singles at Calvary Fellowship (or "Our 2010 fall campaign: FAMILY Pt. 7: The Singles"):
Dear singles,
I have heard a few concerns that we have in some way neglected or not considered the singles in our upcoming FAMILY campaign. I want you to know that is completely false. With all this talk of family, I understand how one might come to that conclusion based on a surface glance. I also understand that some of you might be tempted to check out of a series/campaign that focuses on family, but I believe that would be a BIG mistake. As a single person (unmarried, divorced or widowed), you may not have a physical family of your own right now, but you are still a valuable and essential part of our church family. And the whole idea of our annual fall campaign is for us all to come together and focus on one critical area of study TOGETHER as a church family. Having said that let me share with you three reasons why I believe it is extremely important for you to be fully engaged (no pun intended) in our FAMILY campaign starting this Sunday:
1. The best time to build a biblical vision for your family is on the front end! -Every day movies, TV, music, people bombard us with their ideas of what relationships are all about; much of it confused, distorted and way off-base biblically speaking. To counter that we need to remind ourselves of God's plan for family and relationships on the front end so we can establish a plan that is Godly and intentional rather than haphazard. Once you begin dating, it is almost impossible to objectively evaluate spiritual compatability (essential to a truly healthy relationship); especially if the other person is hot (which to you they should be)! But if you have God's vision for your family in mind in advance, you possess a very helpful tool to help you prepare yourself now and assess a potential future mate.
2. We have considered you in the planning. -The reality is that 90% of you will marry someday, so ultimately this campaign will effect the majority of you very directly at some point. Someday, you will need this stuff! And yet, we have also planned some relevant things for you now. We have a Home Fellowship for singles only with a specific focus of discussion (though you're welcome in any group). There will also be some application in the messages that will correlate to where you are now. When I was a single person I kept an empty picture frame on my end table by my bed. It reminded me to pray for my future wife (that God hadn't revealed to me yet) and it reminded me to continually work on being the kind of man she would want to marry. The reason I share that is not to imply that this series is designed to make you more "dateable," but rather it is designed to help you develop a biblica vision for your future family that will inspire you to grow spiritually in the present.
3. Studying the Bible is NEVER a waste of your time. -At the end of the day, we are going to do what we do at Calvary ALL THE TIME; study the Bible. Studying God's word on ANY topic ALWAYS has value to you: “So shall My word be that goes forth from My mouth; It shall not return to Me void, But it shall accomplish what I please, And it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it. ” (Isaiah 55:11, NKJV)
Even if you don't get exactly what you hoped to out of the series, and even if you don't get exactly what we hoped for you to get out of the series, you will get exactly what God wants you to get out of the series. And I trust that as we open the Bible to seek to understand any apply it, every single one of us will benefit!
The "Building a Family that Lasts" series only runs through October (and then we're back to the final 3 weeks of Revelation). I hope that you will keep an open heart and mind, fully engage yourself in the campaign, and trust that God has some revolutionary things that He wants to share and you need to hear during this campaign.
Thank you for hearing my heart,
Bill
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